Selagi belum tutup mata...kerja kerja kerja..

Dah lama tak update blog. Dah nak dekat 3 minggu. Ishh...bukan apa, terus terang cakap...MALAS!

Malas nak tengok PC kat rumah. Tiap2 hari kat kerja, dah 8.5 jam tengok PC, melayankan kerenah manusia2 yg bertanyakan soalan melalui email. Balik rumah, tak tengok PC pun takper. Tengok tv or tidor or jalan2 dgn yg tersayang lagi baik.

Cakap pasal kerja, ramai kawan2 kat kerja tanya naper aku tak apply kerja as perm kat situk? Kat tempat yg aku kerja ada advertise kat sokkabar, byk position kosong. Tapi tempat2 yg dorang offer tu dari lain dept. Actually aku dah lama apply. Aku apply nak masok kat dept yg aku bekerja skarang. Sebelom Raya Puasa aku dah apply. Personnel branch dah pernah contact aku. Tapi atas sebab2 tertentu, mereka kata kena tunggu tahun depan kalau nak masuk dept yg aku nak. Aku tak kisah. Next week dah tahun depan. Sekejap jer tu.

Ada yg tanya naper aku tak nak masuk dept lain? Tak bosan ke kerja dgn sama org, sama dept, buat sama kerja? Dlm hati aku nak cakap ajer...suka hati aku ah! Aku yg kerja ke kau yg kerja?

Tiap org ada reason dorang sendiri, why they choose and make that decision. Aku tau apa yg aku nak, and I'm going to try for it. Kalau betul I really can't get into the dept that I want, I'll give them my 2nd, 3rd, 4th and so on choices of where I wanna go. Actually I dun care where I landed up, asalkan aku ada kerja. Cuma kerja yg aku nak is somewhere where I can contribute and apply my experience and expertise on. Kalau memang takdir aku kena start from scratch, then by all means, I'm willing to learn all over again. Kena pay-cut or start from a low pay, I dun care! Money is not everything! I've learnt my lesson. Skarang jer ni gaji aku cinonet. Boleh jugak idop, bernafas gak, makan minum pakai semer masih cukup. Alhamdulillah.

My main goal and priority in life is no longer on building up a career. I used to be so down and hard on myself for failing to meet my goal. Until someone whom I respected told me to shift my focus on other goals. I told the person I dun have any. How can you live without goals? Everybody has goals. And that's where I started to think abt my life again and build a new set of goals and priorities in life. Career is no longer in my top priorities. I'm now on my journey to achieve my very first goal. FAMILY....

Selamat Pengantin Baru kepada Nuryusman Mohd Ibrahim & Nursarah Yang - 8 & 9 December 2006

8 December 2006 - Solemnisation Ceremony

The ceremony was held at Raffles Hotel. It was a small ceremony, with only close family members and friends attended the wedding. It was held at the hotel's garden. Quite a nice setting and atmosphere. So romantic....Lucky it did not rain that night, if not, we'll be drenched!

The whole ceremony was totally different from what I've seen so far for Muslim marriages. Most, or I should say, all of my family member's solemnisation ceremony was held at their own flat, with lots of relatives attended it. But this was different. So I was quite excited and curious to find out more about it. So do my friends...hehehe...

The kadhi is my favourite one - Kadhi Nur Razak (the hensem kadhi..hehe). The whole ceremony, including the 'akad nikah' was in English. Quite mesmerised by the whole thing. Alhamdulillah, it all went well and smoothly.

9 December 2006 - Wedding Ceremony

It was held at Restaurant Tepak Sireh. The nasi briyani is nice...sehingga menjilat jari. The meat was soft and tender...hmmm yummy! But there's not much variety of dishes..juz 'kuah dhal, ayam masak merah and acar timun'. Tapi ok jugak lah. Tak cerewet.

I didn't really help out much (actually there's nothing to help out in the first place). So I become 'tukang penyambut tamu'...but only to those guests that I know...hehehe. My temporary duty was to ushered guests to sign the guest book while waiting for the 'official person' to take over (coz she's late). Then I babysit two babies while their parents eat. The babies are so heavy! Koosmangat....Next I became the 'Cisco' coz I have to guard the bag 'yg isi duit salam'. Stress jaga duit banyak2...

Oh I met an old friend. Yeay! Finally met my friend while we are out. Eh wait...damn it! He's also Arfi's friend. Cheh! It's a draw......hmph! :PPPPP bonget!

The ceremony went on well and smoothly. Stayed till the last guest leave. Quite tired after the whole thing but luckily it was only for 3.5hrs. Before going home, had teh-tarik power! Segar kejap...what a nice way to end the day....hmmm yummy!

To Abg Maman and Kak Sarah (think can start calling her Kak, but quite weird lah)...Selamat Pengantin Baru. To Kak Sarah - welcome to the family. Kami doakan semoga kalian kekal hingga ke akhir hayat dan tabah mengharungi cabaran dan dugaan berumahtangga. Insya Allah. Amin.

Can refer to the following link to see the photos.
http://arfisaurus.multiply.com/photos/album/10

Oh baby...

Yesterday marks the beginning of our journey to achieve another goal in our life.

Let's
- pray that this journey will be a smooth one.
- pray that we'll achieve what we've been wanting for so long at the end of this journey.
- pray for a happy ending, dear.
- forget our previous failures. Though we were disappointed and sad, I truly believe that it was a test for us.
- pray that we will stay stronger and closer as ever with all the ups and downs that we've experienced in our life as husband and wife.

I hope that if we achieve this goal, it will make our bond even stronger. Let's think positive and Insya Allah, the Almighty will hear our prayers and give us what we've been waiting for so long. Amin.

But if it is really not the time for us again, I'll still love you dear.

Batam Trip - 7 December 2006

First time went "over-the-sea" without my husband. Quite scared coz normally he will be the one looking after me. But this time, I have to look after myself. I'll normally get seasick so that was my main concern when we board the ferry. But luckily, I ate the seasick medicine and was fine all the way to Batam.

Though there was a hiccup along the way, I can still smile and laugh along the way. No seasick! Yeay! My face is not so cramp...unlike my friend...eksen terror..hehe..u know who u are....hahaha

Had a good time at Batam. First time there. The place is something like Johor, with shophouses that look like warehouse style. No skyscrapers watsoever. Didn't go for shopping..juz spent the whole day in the spa. Got a good massage from head to toe...but the terrible, horrifying part is the facial. Azabb nauzubillah. I do go for facial in Singapore but my beautician is not so rough as the one down there. OMG! Azab seh. Cried most of the time. Thought of asking the person to stop!!! I'm not going for facial there anymore. I'll rather ask my beautician in Singapore to do it for me. But the massage, yes! Must do it there. Felt so light after the whole thing.... :)

Thank you A for organising this trip, including providing us food for 'brunch'. So when's the next trip? Will it include spa for our spouses as well? ;)